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	<title>Comments on: The deadly, #1 difference between you and your pastor in church</title>
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	<description>A practical guide for serving others. . .</description>
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		<title>By: How your serving can solve 3 problems with small group studies</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-1899</link>
		<dc:creator>How your serving can solve 3 problems with small group studies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 04:17:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] supposed to plug into church to give, not to get. I have a hard time thinking of any situation where plugging in would hamper your giving ability. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] supposed to plug into church to give, not to get. I have a hard time thinking of any situation where plugging in would hamper your giving ability. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: bondChristian</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-755</link>
		<dc:creator>bondChristian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 04:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It always goes a long way for me. I&#039;ve been online blogging for over a year, but seeing readers who actually care about what I write still makes me insanely thankful.

So thank you.

-Marshall Jones Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It always goes a long way for me. I&#8217;ve been online blogging for over a year, but seeing readers who actually care about what I write still makes me insanely thankful.</p>
<p>So thank you.</p>
<p>-Marshall Jones Jr.</p>
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		<title>By: amanda</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-750</link>
		<dc:creator>amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 03:55:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m glad that a thumbs up is sufficient, as its what my engery level is allowing these days and I still want to &quot;contribute&quot; ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m glad that a thumbs up is sufficient, as its what my engery level is allowing these days and I still want to &#8220;contribute&#8221; <img src='http://bondchristian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: bondChristian</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-736</link>
		<dc:creator>bondChristian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:22:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your insight into this.

In reply to your answer, I think it&#039;s different for everyone, and that&#039;s part of why it&#039;s so difficult. For me, serving is about encouragement. We have all the information we need (and if we don&#039;t, we have Google). What we need now is encouragement.

Encouragement, though, looks different to different people. For some, encouragement is standing beside them telling them each step in the process. For others, it&#039;s getting out of the way and trusting them to figure it out by themselves.

That&#039;s why I think serving others is an art. Throughout the Bible when we look at Jesus, we see Him serving in so many different ways. For some, it was casting out demons. For others, it was telling them to go sell everything they had and follow Him.

I think it&#039;s presumptuous to think we can create a method for serving others. When it comes down to it, it&#039;s about getting to know people, getting to know their needs, and meeting those needs no matter what they are. That takes time. Sometime it requires the &quot;in your face&quot; conversation - sometimes it requires just letting someone know you&#039;re there for them. 

The trick is in being available to do anything for anyone. We can&#039;t settle for thinking, &quot;Well, he&#039;s the outgoing person - it&#039;s his job to serve that way.&quot; Yes, often God does use the naturally outgoing person to serve that way, but often He wants to stretch us out of our &quot;comfort zones.&quot; (Gotta love that phrase. :) ) Sometimes He wants to teach the outgoing person to listen.

Yeah, it&#039;s 1:19 am here. This whole comment probably didn&#039;t answer your question. For that I apologize. I&#039;ll have to think about this some more. Thank you for the questions, though - I always appreciate them.

-Marshall Jones Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your comment. I really appreciate your insight into this.</p>
<p>In reply to your answer, I think it&#8217;s different for everyone, and that&#8217;s part of why it&#8217;s so difficult. For me, serving is about encouragement. We have all the information we need (and if we don&#8217;t, we have Google). What we need now is encouragement.</p>
<p>Encouragement, though, looks different to different people. For some, encouragement is standing beside them telling them each step in the process. For others, it&#8217;s getting out of the way and trusting them to figure it out by themselves.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s why I think serving others is an art. Throughout the Bible when we look at Jesus, we see Him serving in so many different ways. For some, it was casting out demons. For others, it was telling them to go sell everything they had and follow Him.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s presumptuous to think we can create a method for serving others. When it comes down to it, it&#8217;s about getting to know people, getting to know their needs, and meeting those needs no matter what they are. That takes time. Sometime it requires the &#8220;in your face&#8221; conversation &#8211; sometimes it requires just letting someone know you&#8217;re there for them. </p>
<p>The trick is in being available to do anything for anyone. We can&#8217;t settle for thinking, &#8220;Well, he&#8217;s the outgoing person &#8211; it&#8217;s his job to serve that way.&#8221; Yes, often God does use the naturally outgoing person to serve that way, but often He wants to stretch us out of our &#8220;comfort zones.&#8221; (Gotta love that phrase. <img src='http://bondchristian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  ) Sometimes He wants to teach the outgoing person to listen.</p>
<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s 1:19 am here. This whole comment probably didn&#8217;t answer your question. For that I apologize. I&#8217;ll have to think about this some more. Thank you for the questions, though &#8211; I always appreciate them.</p>
<p>-Marshall Jones Jr.</p>
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		<title>By: bondChristian</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-735</link>
		<dc:creator>bondChristian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you, Amanda. It means a lot for film producers to see that... and me too. :)

-Marshall Jones Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you, Amanda. It means a lot for film producers to see that&#8230; and me too. <img src='http://bondchristian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>-Marshall Jones Jr.</p>
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		<title>By: bondChristian</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-734</link>
		<dc:creator>bondChristian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:04:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I&#039;m interested to hear your thoughts on this. As a pastor&#039;s wife, why do you feel you want to come on Sunday morning... and what do you feel is expected from you (in a very general sense... I know an insanely amount is often expected of you)?

Thank you for reading and interacting. I appreciate it.

-Marshall Jones Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I&#8217;m interested to hear your thoughts on this. As a pastor&#8217;s wife, why do you feel you want to come on Sunday morning&#8230; and what do you feel is expected from you (in a very general sense&#8230; I know an insanely amount is often expected of you)?</p>
<p>Thank you for reading and interacting. I appreciate it.</p>
<p>-Marshall Jones Jr.</p>
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		<title>By: David Knapp</title>
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		<dc:creator>David Knapp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 23:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with you 100%.  

The way we &quot;do&quot; church sets us up to be spectators.  Some come to hear the concert and then the message.  A lot of churches leave it to the pastor to be every gift in the body.  

I have to say that I get bored easily with church here in America because it seems really hard to fit in.  Also it is not as easy to define how we are to serve in the church.  Just this past Sunday the pastor said everyone needs to be getting out of their comfort zones and evangelizing.  I agree to a point.  Because I have read Introverts in the Church what I actually heard the pastor say was: &quot;All you introverts need to act more like extroverts and share Jesus with others.&quot;

God made us all different and their are different ways to share Christ.  Sometimes words will be minimal.  Introverts don&#039;t feel like being bombarded by an extrovert anyhow. (Sorry if I left the topic, sometimes coffee makes me do that) :)

In what ways do you think others should serve in the church.  How can we bring a &quot;spiritual meal&quot; to our community each Sunday or whenever we meet?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with you 100%.  </p>
<p>The way we &#8220;do&#8221; church sets us up to be spectators.  Some come to hear the concert and then the message.  A lot of churches leave it to the pastor to be every gift in the body.  </p>
<p>I have to say that I get bored easily with church here in America because it seems really hard to fit in.  Also it is not as easy to define how we are to serve in the church.  Just this past Sunday the pastor said everyone needs to be getting out of their comfort zones and evangelizing.  I agree to a point.  Because I have read Introverts in the Church what I actually heard the pastor say was: &#8220;All you introverts need to act more like extroverts and share Jesus with others.&#8221;</p>
<p>God made us all different and their are different ways to share Christ.  Sometimes words will be minimal.  Introverts don&#8217;t feel like being bombarded by an extrovert anyhow. (Sorry if I left the topic, sometimes coffee makes me do that) <img src='http://bondchristian.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>In what ways do you think others should serve in the church.  How can we bring a &#8220;spiritual meal&#8221; to our community each Sunday or whenever we meet?</p>
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		<title>By: amanda</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-725</link>
		<dc:creator>amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:03:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thumbs up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thumbs up.</p>
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		<title>By: amk</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-717</link>
		<dc:creator>amk</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 02:12:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hm. I&#039;m a pastor&#039;s wife. This is making me think of what I want and what I should want out of Sunday morning - compared to what other&#039;s expect to get from me Sunday morning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hm. I&#8217;m a pastor&#8217;s wife. This is making me think of what I want and what I should want out of Sunday morning &#8211; compared to what other&#8217;s expect to get from me Sunday morning.</p>
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		<title>By: bondChristian</title>
		<link>http://bondchristian.com/the-deadly-1-difference-between-you-and-your-pastor-in-church/comment-page-1/#comment-684</link>
		<dc:creator>bondChristian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:37:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You&#039;re welcome. I appreciate it.

-Marshall Jones Jr.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re welcome. I appreciate it.</p>
<p>-Marshall Jones Jr.</p>
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